Love and hate are not the only feelings we experience, especially couples. It’s not just always about love, sometimes relationships face some really different issues that no one ever talks about. Here are four relationship issues every couple faces, but never talks about.
Adjustment issues: Yes, we all talk about it during the first few months or the first year of being married or living together. But adjustment issues can crop in anytime between two people — from the kind of friends you have, the kind of profession you are in or the type of social life you lead. It could in from the kind of person you are at home — if your responsible, carefree, sacrificing, workaholic, etc. All these issues slowly turn into major adjustment issues that the couple keeps coping all the lives.
Respect for each other: The most important aspect in a relationship is respect. If you love a person, you would respect him/her, but every couple is not the ideal one, nor are times the same. When in times or argument, difference of opinions or choices in life — couples start disrespecting each other and sometimes also make it obvious before people.
When boredom sets in: It’s not an extra-marital affair or long hours of your hectic schedule, boredom can simply set in, into any relationship. It is one of the most common relationship issues, and it is just the fact that the spark goes missing between two people, when monotony sets in. This is when you really need to concentrate on bringing back that passion in your relationship.
Resisting allure: Another very important issue that a couple faces is resisting to get lured by other attractions outside your relationship. It is very easy to get carried away but extremely difficult to sustain a relationship and keep finding reasons to be loyal and love your partner more with every passing day.